Monday, November 02, 2009

Two Big News Items

Two Big News Items to share w/you if you don't already know:

1) American Corporate Partners is a great organization/resource for military personnel who are ending their military tours and transitioning back into civilian workforce. I'm sharing this with you so you can share it with your battalion. I've just concluded a successful relationship with a woman who not only able to transition successfully back into the workforce, but she was able to leverage her military experience to get her dream job! For more info visit:  http://www.acp-usa.org/



2) After intense behind-the-scenes diplomatic activity, Karzai's opponent withdraws from run-off election and Karzai is declared winner for another 5 yr term. Those on the left are crying foul, those on the right see it as an oppty to try & bring economic/political stability to a war torn unstable country. Those stuck in the middle (the Afghan citizens) are simply trying to create a decent existence for their families, out of the challenging conditions they have to deal with.

Saturday, October 31, 2009

Fun, Crazy, Busy Weekend

Almost getting to the point of Total exhaustion. But I won't complain because as busy as I am, its nearly not as busy as this incredible guy.  It may seem to rival his schedule but not quite. The only difference between him and I, is that his children are older and THEY HAVE TO listen to him.  Try reasoning with over a hundred little kids that are super excited and hyped up on sugar on sugar and you get mission Impossible just have them sit down to eat dinner!

The party I helped organize at the Y last night was a huge success.  We fed over 100 kids (and their parents) a healthy early dinner consisting of Ghoul-ash, eyes of Newt (I have no idea what that was), green worms (spinach pasta), brains and baby bats salad (sea weed salad & carrots shaped as bats).  Afterwards the kids helped us decorate the incredibly delicious deserts, that were made by the parents.  There were some incredible pumpkin cupcakes and zucchini bread that the kids went crazy for and decorated with gummy worms, etc.  There was more fun & games after they decorated their chosen desserts and ate them.  we had a costume contest in 2 categories: one for the best solo child costume, and the best parent child combination costume.  Last year, when someone else hosted the party, my son and I won the parent/child costume category.  I was a very short Darth Vader and my son was one of my Imperial Guards.  Very cool!  We won a chess/checker set and a huge bag of candy that was the envy of all the kids.  The candy lasted till August of this year.  Between the 3 hr prep and the 3 hr. party I was exhausted, but my night was not done yet. 

I then had my first meeting with a group of member that we have formed at the Y,  The group's focus is to break through our current physical barriers that has kept at a certain plateau or threshold level and has not let us create the incredible hard bodies we want.  The meeting was to formalize the group, set goals, create a working format and set ground rules before our first official workout.  I've been needing this type of set up for almost 10 yrs now. For me, my set back has been the lack of support & accountability.  My entire life I've been involved in team sports and have worked out in a team atmosphere.  From volleyball, track & gymnastics in Jr. High & High School to skiing, softball & tennis in college. So when my circle of best friends, workout buddies & cheerleading squad died on 9/11 I was left with a world shattered and torn apart, and with no clue or ability of how to move forward. 

Well, this morning was our first workout.  It was over 2 hours long.  I did the first 75 min with one group had a 30 min break (standing and running around) and 75 min with the 2nd group.  We are talking, treadmill, elliptical, spinning, stairmaster, rowing, etc., etc. My knees are feeling it now!! But I FEEL GREAT!!!  One of the members of our group is a former Ranger and former personal trainer, whose a bit out of shape for the past few years while raising small kids.  He's made a committment to come back into the gym and get back in shape.  He had to stop 3 times for about a min each time and slow down 2 other times on the stairmaster because he couldn't keep up with me... wooohooo!  Same thing with the rowing.  I said nothing because I still have to get to know him to figure out when and how to coax him to finish the exercises as we had planned them. I am just excited that I did everything on our exercise plan and that we did them so well.  Woohoo!

Late this afternoon, after attending a noontime parade with some other parents,  my son and I went home to rest up for the next event on our schedule, another parade.  Parents and kids from our neighborhood participated in a small Halloween Parade sponsored by the Kiwanis Club. There was a nice group of between 80 & 90 kids and parents, all with very unique costumes.  My son, who by then was Halloweened out - just wanted to dress up comfortably in jeans and a Yankees tshirt and cap - to help me with car/crowd safety.  Unlike my son, I was in the mood to dress up, and I put together a  gypsy outfit, much like the one you see below. The only exception was the sleeves, which were just barely off the shoulders.  After all, I am a middle-aged mom. I carried a tambourine in my hand to get the kids,  parents and driver's attention, when they were inching too close to us (we had to share the road).  

We walked for 3 miles in the parade and then ended at the local community center (my feet were killing me by then).  There they had a free party for members of the Kiwanis Club, one of the sponsored the parade.  We got to go as guests of 2 members who are trying to recruit me as a member.  A live band played and there was some great snacks & appetizers donated by local restaurant merchants.  It was truly a really well organized and fun event. After the party we all retreated to the home of our party hosts to rest and relax before the next and last event of the day - trick o'  treating.  

We kept our trick o'treating simple and went only to homes and apartments where we knew the residents. Michael, who helped escort the kids up the steps was surprised to receive candy and money. On the way home he said he was happy with the unexpected loot he got and is looking forward to using the change to buy deeply discounted Halloween candy next weekend. 

We just got home, having barely beat the rain, and with our feet perched and resting, we're sitting in front of the tv (a rare thing) eagerly awaiting for the Game 3 between the Yankees/Phillies to start.   

I'm looking forward to reading your posts of your own Halloween events or adventures. Hope they were fun! .

Wednesday, October 21, 2009

WSJ: The Sex-Housework Link

In The Wall Street Journal today there's an article entitled: The Sex-Housework Link. Provocative title isn't it?



The article is reporting about a study done by two sociological scientist in which they found that the more housework you do, the more often you are likely to have sex with your spouse. Funny, that's not been my experience.

An interesting read and the stats are even more so. I'd like to have a word with both, the scientits who conducted the study and the WSJ writer.

Monday, October 19, 2009

Net Neutrality & Elections

This article from the Wall Street Journal (Facebook & Twitter Join Net-Neutrality War) brings to light the camps entering the Net Neutrality fray on the FCC's proposed rules and proposed legislation. Below is FCC Chairman Genachowski's big announcement along with info on where you can learn more and where you can eventually be able to give your 2cents worth for Congress and the FCC to consider.



Yes, I know, that's 2 min of your life you will never get back, and YES it lacks details and substance despite all the anticipated angst from rumors, and all the hyperbole from business and tech sites.  However, its precisely because of that hyperbole and rumor-mongering that we, as free devoted netizens of the cybersphere, need to remain vigilant of what's going on, lest our beloved gov't lose sight of "OUR" interests and succumb to the demands of lobbyists protecting their large corporate clients. 

How interesting that the average Joe, or Joe the plumber for that matter, was not in present in the jam packed press room at this announcement.  Nope, only reporters,lobbyists and industry execs from telco's, isp's,  internet business companies, etc., were present.  Which means, we (the netizens of the world) have to ensure that our interests are considered and protected when it comes to any proposed rules. 

TO learn more about 'Net Neutrality' you can begin by reading the legislation and tracking its progress as it goes through Congress.  If you scroll down at the Tracking link you will be able to see the latest news on it, who publicly supports and opposes the bill. I encourage you to write your local Congressional Representative directly and freely by clicking through the previous link. Let them know how you feel after reading all the material. Our Congressional Representatives do read letters and on occassion use them in their speeches to persuade their peers.

Below you will find some news articles about this from one source.  I will be pulling  from a few others resources soon and will post them here as I go along.  In the meantime, please read what the WSJ has to say about Net-Neutrality:
Net-Neutrality in the Spotlight
Net-Neutrality Speech Draws Strong Reactions

Gotham Crushing Small Business Dreams?

Apparently this article at the City Journal seems to think so.  Now I understand why 20 businesses in a square mile radius of where I live have gone out of business this past year,  10 are hanging on by a thread and 16 more have only 3 to 6 months operating capital left.   
I have volunteered with my local Chamber of Commerce to consult one-on-one on how these businesses can create an online presence and also market themselves and their products in order to compete more effectively in their market place.  Lets hope I can help!

Sunday, October 18, 2009

ALCS @ Yankee Stadium

(NY Daily News)


Its game 2 and the score has been tied.since the 7th.  We are now in the middle of the 11th inning.  My son insisted he wanted to stay up and watch his beloved Yanks but at 9:30pm I prevailed upon a sleepy boy to go to bed and he went without protests as long as I fulfill my obligation of a play by play recount of the games's highlights.  .

My son is so looking forward to Monday when I will be leaving work early to pick him up at school and watch the entire  game on TV.. I'm looking forward to it too as its an opportunity for us to bond and for him to make some memories. 
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Update:  After 5 hours and 10 min, and 7 tied innings,  the Yankees were finally able to score in the 13th inning on an Angels error.  I will take the win however I can get it.  I am just grateful the weather in Cali is in the mid 60's.  It will be a nice change for them.  Okay, must get sleep as I have a full schedule tomorrow.  I have the Jets and Giants games to watch.   : ) 


Sunday, October 11, 2009

Lord Vader to you!



This is me last year, killing time at a cafe before a meeting.  Sadly, this cafe no longer exists. Its yet another casualty of the severe economic downturn we are experiencing in NYC.  Too bad its closed, it was my oasis in the storms during the day at work.  My great escape... the place that lured me with the promise of quiet surroundings with soothing music and a great cappuccino, such as the yummy one below. 

And how did I manage to drink with a mask on, you might ask? Well, through a straw that was placed through a small hole in my mask, which I covered with black duct tape. I wore that mask all day long and even to two departmental meetings without taking it off.  It brought smiles to faces and light chuckles to busy hearts and minds. Me, I had a ball the entire day.

What will I do this halloween?  I really don't know.  Do you have any suggestions on what I might do? .


Sports in NYC

Ironic, NY has more colleges than any other city in the US. The irony is that unlike the rest of the country, we don't really have a decent college football team to support.  Hell, most colleges don't even have a football team so there is nothing to cheer about during football season.  Mostly, because there isn't a decent team to be found anywhere within the city limits.

So our entire sports focus & hunger goes onto our professional teams.  So when players say the NY fans are the most incredible fans in the world, they're right!

Yay for the Giants, the Yanks & the Rangers!!!

Friday, September 25, 2009

Pics of NYC week of 9/20





An aerial picture of sun bathers in Central Park's Sheep Meadow at noon this past week when temps reached 86F.


 


The reason people in NYC are always outside: the size of apts. Here's a pic of a complete studio apt from the front door.



The reason I will search far and wide for a hidden oasis in NYC, such as this place....



the oppressive crowds are sometimes just too much to handle!On this particular night it took me 20 min to walk 3 blocks to my subway stop.  Is it any wonder we're everyone's favorite target?

Friday, September 18, 2009

Pics of NYC week of 9/13


As I lay in bed coughing my brains out I looked through my laptop for pics I took this past summer.



I entitled this Weeds grow in Brooklyn.  They were on a rooftop of a building of someone I know.  Manhattan seems far away doesn't it.



A 60 yr old sign in the industrial section of town a few miles away.  See, NYC isn't always about skyscrapers.



Not only do NY developers create their own pools and beaches... they create their own palm trees too. And to make it more useful and decorative they go one further... a tree with electric palms!



Went back to my Dr. 'cause I felt like crap all weekend. My doctor's office was so packed I raised the window shade to get the illusion of space in his overcrowded office.  This was the view he had.  No wonder the shades were down.  I amused myself for the next hour by trying to decipher the variuos images.

Tuesday, August 18, 2009

Skaters Gather to Pay Tribute to a Legend in NYC





Generations of Skaters Gather to Pay Tribute to a Legend in NYC

August 17, 2009 By COLIN MOYNIHAN - New York Times

The noise of skateboard wheels thrumming on wooden ramps echoed near the Brooklyn waterfront in Greenpoint on Saturday night, where a semisecret skating spot called the Autumn Bowl is located inside an old brick warehouse.

Photographs of the New York City skateboarding pioneer Andy Kessler decorated the walls inside the warehouse, and bouquets of roses sat on a table next to handwritten messages addressed to Mr. Kessler, who died last week at age 48 after an allergic reaction to an insect sting.

In another sort of tribute, dozens of skaters took turns whizzing around a 2,500-square-foot, 7-foot-deep birch skateboarding bowl, as a boom box blared songs by the Beastie Boys and the Who.

Among the 200 or so people who showed up to remember Mr. Kessler was Tony Alva, a champion skater from Santa Monica, Calif., who many believe epitomizes West Coast skating and who said that Mr. Kessler embodied “the spirit of New York.”

“He carried that flag higher and bolder than anyone,” Mr. Alva said as he stood in a wide alleyway next to the warehouse. “He skates with me today.”

More than 30 years of skating the homemade ramps and rutted streets of New York City left plenty of marks on Mr. Kessler, including scrapes and scars from bone-shattering collisions. And in many ways, Mr. Kessler left an equally strong impression on the city.

They called him the Godfather, and as a teenager on the Upper West Side in the 1970s he skated at places with names like the Death Bowl, an abandoned pool in the Bronx, and Suicide Hill, a steep slope near the banks of the Hudson River. He also became a member of a group of graffiti writers and skaters who called themselves the Soul Artists of Zoo York and who helped define East Coast skating.

“Andy was like the president, the king,” said an artist called Zephyr, who was part of the group.

As a teenager Mr. Kessler skated on the fringes of the city, using planks pilfered from construction sites to create makeshift ramps. Later, after wrangling with the New York City parks department, he designed and helped build one of the city’s first sanctioned skate parks, at 108th Street and Riverside Drive. It opened in the mid-1990s at a spot where he had first skated 20 years before. Other skate parks followed.

The renegade roots of that time seemed distant on Saturday morning as a handful of young skaters there signed forms that exempted the city from liability, then — wearing helmets, elbow pads and kneepads — rolled briskly along. One young skater, wearing a red helmet, paused at the mention of Mr. Kessler’s name.

“Who doesn’t know him?” asked the skater, Anthony Rojas, 11, from Washington Heights, adding that he thought the park “needs some more ramps.”

There was more talk of Mr. Kessler that evening at the Autumn Bowl, where young skaters who wanted to acknowledge his legacy gathered with longtime friends who had rolled with him as teenagers through nighttime streets. Skating luminaries from California mingled next to Mr. Kessler’s mother and sister, who had recently arrived from Florida.

“He had a wonderful heart,” said Mr. Kessler’s mother, Ruth. “If anybody ever needed anything, Andy would help them.”

But underlying that generosity, friends said, was a blunt willingness to sometimes ruffle feathers.

“We loved him for his straight-up candor,” said J. J. Veronis, 46. “That boldness was like an avenue he would open up right in front of you to follow.”

For some time Mr. Kessler traveled a path of passionate abandon, friends agreed. But after giving up drinking and drugs more than 20 years ago, he declared his dedication to others seeking sobriety, answering the phone late at night to offer counsel, or taking struggling comrades on trips away from the narcotic temptations of the city.

Sometimes, during those journeys, he would cite skating as a simile for a healthy life. And some friends extended that thought on Saturday while analyzing Mr. Kessler’s skating style. Steve Olson, a well-known skater from Los Angeles, called him “a soul skater.” Mr. Veronis, who grew up with Mr. Kessler in the 1970s, called him “the artful dodger.”

Mr. Kessler never stopped skating, but it was more or less inevitable that would he slow down somewhat as he aged. Five years ago, while skating in SoHo, Mr. Kessler wiped out. In the resulting crash, he dislocated a femur, damaged his pelvis and broke a kneecap.

More recently, he had been surfing in Montauk, N.Y., partly in an effort to spare his body further battering, friends said. Mr. Kessler was on a surfing trip there last Monday, when he received a sting from a wasp that resulted in cardiac arrest.

The news staggered friends, and they began gathering at the KCDC Skateshop in Williamsburg, Brooklyn, where the shop owner, Amy Gunther, planned Saturday’s memorial along with Mr. Kessler’s far-flung friends.

Common experiences emerged. For everyone he had aided within the world of skating, it seemed, there was also somebody who credited Mr. Kessler with helping him or her steer clear of drugs or alcohol.

Harry Jumonji, 41, from the Lower East Side, said on Saturday night that Mr. Kessler took him to Montauk last week to get him away from the heroin he was in the midst of quitting.

“He saved my life,” Mr. Jumonji said. “I wish I could have saved his.”